What's the most important thing in the minds of Brazilian men? Football, naturally. What reason could a Brazilian ever have for postponing his wedding? A cup final, naturally. Just imagine a Brazilian woman asks a Brazilian man to come to a ballet instead of a cup final. An absurd venture, unless the relationship has been dicey for a while and the option is intended as a test of commitment. Off to the Opera House. During the performance HE is rapturous, while SHE is ecstatic about this profound emotional involvement. He shares the suffering and love of the dancers on stage, infinitely But sometimes things are not all they seem. With HIM and with HER.